If there is one book that’s been most helpful to me in this field, it’s been Robert Greene, The Art of Seduction . According to Robert Greene, we don’t need to be the most beautiful in order to be the most seductive. What we need to be is unpredictable, entertaining, fun, and surprising. It doesn’t surprise me that most men couldn’t care less what we say, but how we present ourselves.
My suggestion: Be spontaneous, Be in control, Be one step ahead , and Be confident.
This is one of my favorite quotes:
“Her seductive power, however, did not lie in her looks […]. In reality, Cleopatra was physically unexceptional and had no political power, yet both Caesar and Antony, brave and clever men, saw none of this. What they saw was a woman who constantly transformed herself before their eyes, a one-woman spectacle. Her dress and makeup changed from day to day, but always gave her a heightened, goddesslike appearance. Her words could be banal enough, but were spoken so sweetly that listeners would find themselves remembering not what she said but how she said it.”